The Christianville Spirit: 5 Love Languages + Romantic Geography

Love, Comes from The Heart!

The Love Island of St. Lucia

The Christianville Spirit 

The Spirit that Inspires The Soul 

February 5th, 2025 – TCS # 887 

 

Happy February, My Readers! Yes, This is a more Common Greeting to Me than You Think. Every Month, on First Day of The Month, I always tell My Mom, Happy (Insert Month Here)! Happy February; Happy March (Marzo); You get The Idea. Speaking of March (I call it Marzo), PTLS Awareness Month is coming up soon! Get Ready! I am Very Excited! For Now though, It is February, The Month of Love. Now, Not Everyone agrees with Valentine’s Day but, Love Anyway! So, on to This Week’s Newsletter! 

So, I know that This is Not going to be a Geography-Related Newsletter, More like a Romance Newsletter but, I think You will like The Next Part of This Geography Lesson that I recently Discovered. 

Romance is Coming, I Promise! But, Did You know that You can go Skiing in Spain?! Yes Seriously! Skiing. In. Spain. 

Now, To Me, when I think of Skiing in Europe, I think of The Alps, like Switzerland (CH), Austria (A), or Even The French Alps of France (F). But, Spain?! Okay, I guess It refers to My Own Personal Word or Name Association.  

In This Case, Spain (E) to Me, associates a More Warmer Climate with Mild Winters, kind of Country. Then again, The Only Place that I been to in Spain is Madrid (E) Spain but, I digress. Thanks to Tripadvisor Post that I saw about a Ski Resort called Baqueira-Beret Ski Resort. 

 I realized that indeed They do have Skiing in Spain, because of The Pyrenees Mountains which border Spain (E) and France (F). Anyway, between You and I, I learned a Little Something New in The Geography Department. 

Now, Here’s Come The Romance (And, Geography), So recently Discovered an Island in The Caribbean, Commonly Referred to as “The Love Island” called 

 Saint Lucia. 

Now, Until This Point, Saint Lucia was not on 

 “Christian’s Romanticism” Radar, sort of like Skiing in Spain wasn’t. Now, For The Record, Saint Lucia has been Marked as, The Number One Honeymoon Destination, 9 Times in a Row! For Those who Need a Mental Picture like I do, Saint Lucia is The Island in which, You have seen Pictures of a Grand View of The Ocean, a Swimming Picture, and This “Tee-Pee” Looking Mountain in The Background, Commonly referred to “The Pitons” (Pronounced “Peet-Toahns”), That The Love Island of Saint Lucia!  

Anyway, So That’s Two Romanticism Places that I have Learned about Recently! 

Speaking of Romance! Let’s Talk about Something that Alot of People forget! It is called Love Languages! In Other Words, It is like a “Secret Language” that Everyone speaks to show that They feel Loved. Funny Enough, People also should remember that Their Romantic Person should Speak Their Own Love Language as well as The Love Language of Their Romantic Person. See, that Is What People sometimes Forget. To Speak Both Love Languages, that of Yourself and that of Your Romantic Person. 

I will let The Me from 2013 explain in a Rerun about Love Languages! With New Aesthetics!  

 

This Newsletter was written on  

February 27th of 2013 (Refer to Newsletter 340) 

 

So, 2 Weeks Ago, I was on YouTube, catching up with the you tubers that I watch, when I saw a video from one of their friends. It was a video explaining about a quiz about what is called, “The 5 Love Languages.” I had heard something about “The 5 Love Languages” a couple years ago but, I overlooked it and moved on. I also remember telling the PTLS Family Member that I have dates with Thursday & Friday about it because “Love Language” to My Literal Sense, means that it’s another language that you know or have to learn. Like learning to speak English or French. Anyway, after watching the video, I got a little curious about the quiz and all the time that I have been on Facebook (both Now and in the “Madison Days”) I always loved taking personality or romantic quizzes, so this one wasn’t any different. Anyway, This Quiz was a 30 Question quiz about what you would prefer in the way that someone shows how much they love you or really, how to love you. Needless to say, it was an interesting quiz because it made you think deeper about the way you want to be loved or shown love, than an entertainment quiz like “What’s Your Personality Color?” or “What Kind of Lover Are You?” So, after I took the quiz, it gave me the results. So, what they do is they give you a list of the 5 Love Languages that you speak most to least. 

(2025 Edit: So Here is A “Christian’s Romanticism” Lesson about Love Languages) 

 

++ My Love Languages ++ 

So, My “Primary Love Language” is called Quality of Time  

 

++ Quality of Time  

 

It means that to Show that You Love Me is spending lots of time with me, giving me your undivided attention, and taking an interest into everything that I am saying. They say that no time together and not paying attention to what someone is saying, can be hurtful. So, here are the other 4 Love Languages... 

 

++ Physical Touch:  

My 2nd Love Language. To show someone that you care and/or love them is to touch them appropriately like Holding Hands, Cuddling, and Putting Your Arm around them. If you touch them inappropriately, hit them, or push them, it can be hurtful.    

 

++ Words of Affirmation:  

Nothing says, “I Love You” like just saying something like, “I Love You, Honey”, “Your Amazing”, “Your Intelligent”, or Basic Compliments. However, Hateful Words, even if you think you are joking, it can be hurtful. 

 

++ Acts of Service:  

This is My Mom’s 2nd Love Language. Actions speak Louder than Words. The Biggest way to this person’s heart is lending a helping hand with Homework, Housework, and Projects. However, things like Laziness and Broken Promises can be hurtful.  

 

++ Receiving Gifts:  

For those who speak this language, to show you love them is to shower them with gifts. They love gifts, for their Birthday, Valentine’s Day, or Just a random Tuesday Evening. However, If you miss and/or forget their birthday, No Roses on Valentine’s Day, or Not giving much, can be hurtful. 

 

So, those are My 5 Love Languages. I’ll tell you though, it doesn’t only help you understand what Love Language comes out naturally to yourself. But, also it’s help you understand your Friend’s Love Language or better yet, your Romantic Interest’s Love Language. If you asked me if I would recommend this quiz, I would say Yes. I think you should try it and see what your 5 Love Languages are and help you understand your Friends & Family’s Love Languages better. All in All, You may not think about it, but Love Languages are an important part of your life. 

 

 

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