The Christianville Spirit: My Brother is Awesome

The Christianville Spirit
The Spirit that touches Lives
September 24, 2008- TCS # 118
So, the other day My Mom took me to Barnes and Noble. And, I looked at some maps and read a couple books. But, there was one book that caught my attention; a book about something that is close to Potocki-Lupski Syndrome, Autism. The book was called “The Everything Parents Guide to Autism”. Just to see how much it compares to me. So, as I looked through it I came upon a section about Autism’s effect of their siblings. It said that their sibling/ or siblings get jealous of the autistic person because they get more attention then, their normal siblings. So, that got me wondering about my brother. Then, I talked to My Mom about it and she said I have an awesome brother she knows that wouldn’t happen. Then, she brought up to tell him how much and why I love him. So, here it goes. First off, I should tell how much and even why I love him. Well, how much, that is the easy part because I love him a lot. So, let’s get to deep part; why I love him. Well, I have several reasons. The first one, he’s my brother and he’s family. Not deep enough. The next one, is that he’s helps me out and lets me hang with his friends. Getting there; Ok, the next one; he’s the best brother ever, I wouldn’t ask for anything more, and I’m very proud of him for his accomplishments and going after his dream. All in all, he’s such an awesome brother that I could NEVER ask for more.

Thanks for reading The Christianville Spirit. If you have an awesome brother or sister, tell them how much and why you love them.

The Christianville Spirit: Beauty and Perfectality

The Christianville Spirit
The Spirit that touches lives
September 17, 2008-TCS # 117
So, I was watching one of my regular shows named “Life with Derek” and on the show, there was this new kid in the school on the show. He rated every girl in the school on a rating from 0 to 10. 10 being very beautiful and 0 being very ugly; well, the main character, Casey got a 6 and half. By the middle of the show, this guy was actually trying to get Casey’s attention and Derek, the 2nd main character, his ex-girlfriend Kendra was going to hold a fashion show using this guy rating. But, by the end of the show Casey decides hold another fashion show for those who didn’t get a good rating. She said the point is it was to wear what makes feel happy and like you. But, my friend; that’s not what people believe in our society. These days, People care more about beauty and perfectality. People unfortunately don’t care about you being yourself or see you from the inside. But, that we need to change. There wouldn’t such pressure on girls and even guys to be beautiful or handsome. So, I bet your thinking “Christian, how do we change that because people judging people about their looks is sooo ANNOYING!?!?!” well, first off meet the person and talk to them before you even judge them because first off, you may actually like them and also they might have a heart of gold. The next thing would be to see people from the inside because you may run into a girl who is as ugly as sin and she is the sweetest person you’ll get to know. The final thing would be to dress to makes YOU happy; not to impress people and of course, the most important rule, be yourself. All in all, don’t let yourself be judged by other people and if so, don’t let it bother you because there’s no such thing as being perfect and all-around beautiful.

Thanks for the reading The Christianville Spirit. You are Beautiful/Handsome! No mater what others say.

The Christianville Spirit: Saving Your Marriage

The Christianville Spirit
The Spirit that touches lives
September 10, 2008- TCS # 116

Marriage; It’s a wonderful thing, filled with love, compassion, trust, and commitment. But, here’s a sad fact about Marriages. Most of them these days end in divorce. So, why are they ending that much and why do we have such a high divorce rate. Well, there could be many reasons why depending on your situation. But, The 2 biggest reasons are that they get married to young or too early in a relationship and a lack of respect and communication. The most important reason though is the 2nd reason, a lack of respect and communication. So, how can you have a lack of communication when the world is filled with it? There are many forms of communication; there is emailing, text messaging, instant messaging, and of course talking. But, it’s just the communication side of communication. For men in particular, they often have a hard time expressing feelings. Most women will ask in a frustrated tone “Why don’t you express feelings to me?!?!?” and, the reason for that is that Men believe that they would be weak if they expressed how they felt. Mainly though, it’s due a tough stereotype that says that Men are strong and they don’t show emotion or cry. But, the truth is that everyone has the same feelings. But, some people just don’t know how to express those feelings. So, the best advice to save your marriage is to ALWAYS respect people and of course, communicate even if it means texting your significant other how you feel and then, meet and talk about it in person. All in all, Respect and Communication are key to any relationship.
Thanks for reading The Christianville Spirit. If someone you see needs a friend, be a friend for them.

The Christianville Spirit: TCS Series; My First Job and The Future

The Christianville Spirit
The Spirit that touches lives
September 3, 2008- TCS # 115
Ok, everyone it’s time for the 9th and Final Installment of the series “Life is a fun Highway with PTLS”. For this installment, I’m going to cover My First Job and The Future. So, without further a due; this is My First Job and The Future. In the summer of 2006, I decided to apply for My First Job which was at a Double-A League Baseball Team called the Frisco Roughriders. I wanted to work there because My Friend, Madison Shields worked there and what she did there sounded like something that I could do and would have fun doing. She was what they called a “Playball Attendant” which means you pass out programs to visitors. So, I worked there for 3 Years and then, Madison becomes a bully to me and finally I wanted to quit because I didn’t want to deal with her anymore. But, aside from Madison being a bully it was a lot of fun working there. As for the future for me, health wise we will watch as it happens and think positive about it. Career Wise, I know that I’m meant to help families of my special needs and bring light and love to people. And, finally personally I am holding out for My Dream Girl who will be named Carol Holiday. And, she will be an awesome and sweet girl. All in all, I had fun working at the Roughriders and My Future is pretty bright. Anyway, thank you for tuning into The Christianville Spirit Series, “Life is a fun Highway with PLTS”. I hope this series has helped you a lot in guiding your child through Childhood to Young Adulthood.
Thanks for Reading The Christianville Spirit. You are Blessed and Loved. Get your Spirit on!